I thoroughly dislike Facebook. There. I said it aloud. And I know I’m not alone. Maybe I should start a Facebook Healing Program: “Hi. My name is LinDee and I’m a recovering Facebook member.”
I
can’t say I’ve ever been a Facebook fanatic. I used to be a private person and my sole purpose for
joining was to connect with others on a business level. But its uses for many
people are multi-level, appealing to every aspect of life. And I do mean every.
Have you ever visited
FB’s various policy and information pages? They’re very enlightening. Right
from the beginning they tell us (and we ignore the connotation): “We are
building Facebook to make the world more open and transparent. …” (www.facebook.com/principles.php)
“The
world” – as in governments and enforcement agencies that are supposed to
protect us, yes; but the world, as in each individual, should NOT be transparent
to the point of vulnerability to the mass villains!
Another
fun page to visit is their assertions and disclaimers regarding other websites
and applications: “FacebookPlatform (or simply Platform) refers to the way we help you share your information with the games,
applications, and websites you and your friends use. … Remember that these
games, applications and websites are created and maintained by other businesses
and developers who are not part of Facebook, so you should always make sure to
read their terms of service and privacy policies.” (Italics are mine.)
Do you
have time
for that? I don’t.
And
so we trust Facebook to do right by us and not partner with companies who mean
us harm. Ha.
The
problem is we (and I use that term lightly) have allowed (again lightly)
Facebook and its partners to strip away our privacy until virtually none
exists. I don’t sign on to FB to look for impulse purchases – example from their
cookie policy page explaining use: “features and relevant ads and content” –
can you get any more ambiguous?
The
only excuse I can fathom for the lack of privacy predicament in which we are
now enmeshed is stupidity – however, we all know that legally, ignorance is no
excuse.
Facebook
has increasingly whittled away at our dignity by essentially dangling shiny
objects in front of babies. We grasp the objects, uncaring of consequences –
more importantly, largely unaware of them. Babies are not adults with the
knowledge that accompanies the term; nor are most of us techies, to know what lurks
behind the pretty bauble.
Originally
created as a “community” that is open to the public, Facebook emerged as innovative,
interesting, fun, kitschy, democratic,
and ostensibly “for the people.” (Sound familiar? Like a government we know?)
In
reality, it’s the ol’ bait-and-switch advertising ploy. Now that we’re hooked
they’ll do whatever they damn well please. And I love the bit about the ability
to vote on policy changes (I’m sure they look with envy on the convoluted
Electoral College).
FB
leaders obviously hate that they allowed our input from the beginning and don’t
know how to get out of it. Now they’re strong-arming us by setting an
improbable required deadline to vote – in order to keep our right to vote! How
convenient for them.
This
writing was prompted by an article that greeted my sleep-deprived eyes this
morning, appearing through the haze of my coffee steam:
By Rob Waugh | Yahoo! News – 3
hrs ago (4:00A/PT, 12/07/12)
“Unless 300 million people (a third of Facebook’s
users) vote ‘against’ by Monday, the networking giant will no longer allow
users to vote on policy changes.
The wording of the
vote itself is not a simple 'Yes' or 'No' – to vote against, users have to
select, ‘Existing Documents: The current SRR and Data Use Policy,’ as opposed
to ‘Proposed Documents: The proposed SRR and Data Use Policy.’ The voting page
is here.” (Italics are mine.)
Click on the "Site Governance Vote" under their logo in the header; the next page, click on the "Vote" tab at top/left.
Click on the "Site Governance Vote" under their logo in the header; the next page, click on the "Vote" tab at top/left.
The article quotes leading privacy activist, Rainey Reitman, “The voting system currently in place doesn't work; it is simply impossible to get 30% of the users (300 million individuals) to vote on anything on Facebook within 30 days. The overwhelming majority of users participating in the vote right now are voting against removing the voting system." (Full article, here.)
Since
joining (2009), I have never been one who takes a cutesy, fun, or gross picture
with my phone and shoots it up to FB. I don’t tell you what I had for lunch or
where. I don’t even post my grandkids’ pictures. Aren’t I proud of them? Of
course. Am I a horrible grandma? No. I simply like my privacy and respect
others’.
It
was a couple of years before my family discovered I was there – and my close
family and I still are not “friends.” We prefer to phone, text, or – gasp –
actually visit each other in an environment where we can hug, have a meal
together, watch TV – in the same room!
I know that sounds
archaic and not everyone has that luxury. For that I am blessed. But private
Skype conversations and the good ol’ telephone call with distant loved ones,
are more my style. And yes, I’m thrilled that I’m a Boomer and won’t live to see what
the Internet and the Facebooks of the world have in store for you young’uns, by
the time you’re my age.
I
don’t know if we can stop the travesty that has overtaken our country. Do you
realize that by connecting our lives through Facebook, LinkedIn, Twitter,
Pinterest, our websites, our blogs, our underwear – just checking to see if you’re
still reading – we are making ourselves vulnerable in SO many ways?
We no
longer have ANY privacy. Who started it?
How did
we allow this to happen? It’s difficult to know.
Do
you realize it extends to a necessary key feature of Obamacare? A recent
article brought attention to the vulnerabilities of the new health care system
that requires medical and health care industries to implement digital files on
all patients. But many facilities do not utilize truly secure programs, leaving
our health issues and other personal information exposed to hackers and
scammers.
Since
the Internet began we have been losing our privacy, one byte at a time. It’s
like cancer … you often don’t know you’re sick until it’s too late. Guess what …
I believe it’s too late.
That
won’t stop me from casting my vote on Facebook’s policies today; but like the
last presidential election, I no longer feel “every vote counts.” In no way,
shape or form, do we live a democratic life on the pre-Internet level. It makes
me sad. (And more reverent of GeorgeOrwell; NineteenEighty-Four; prophetically published in 1949.)
Facebook
didn’t invent the destructive systems attacking our privacy, but they’re
certainly exploiting them; and to a larger extent than its predecessors and
cohorts. It has set the bar for other companies and programs to create baubles
they know we won’t resist.
Too
bad this shiny toy is an ominous Trojan Horse.
Vote
against loss of privacy – votefor “Existing Documents” on Facebook today.
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